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Tick-Tock

I was ambivalent about giving my granddaughter my old Micky Mouse watch. Only 11, she has managed to avoid and has been protected from most

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Swan Farewells

The Swan by Rilke, Translated by Robert Bly This clumsy living that moves lumbering as if in ropes through what is not done, reminds us

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What’s in a Name?

 “I’m 87?” He was astonished to hear this, having been told that his birthday had been two days earlier. “People die when they are 87!”.

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The Pink Negligee

  “Do you suppose I would ever wear this?” My sister-in-law held up a pink cluster of chiffon and lace. It was a “semi-formal” evening

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The Long Goodbye

“She looks just like she always has, but when I come to see her at the end of each day, she’s just not there, there.”

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Dan’s Dharma Box

In the two years before he died, my friend Dan worked on his “Dharma Box”. He sourced the idea from Anyen Rinpoche’s Book, Dying with

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Distant Learning

During the past eleven months, I have been the distance learning “coordinator” for my family. Each day, my 7- and 11-year-old grandchildren have bent over

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Galley Kitchen

I’m still on the phone when the timer goes off. The kitchen is a hodgepodge of open flour and sugar canisters (for the Guinness Stout

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Best Laid Plans

A patient of mine was discussing the holidays with me and remarked that she really did not know what to think about them as she

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Abundance

David Kessler, author on grief and loss, shares this parable: “Picture a long, narrow dining room. The food is scrumptious, beautifully laid out. There are

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